I don't believe I should be selling myself like a brand, and I don't believe it is even ethical for me, or anyone, to search through hundreds of profiles as if they were trading cards with different stats for strength, beauty, and intelligence, and then pick out what you want. A marketplace for a "special someone" is an extremely twisted idea IMHO.
To say it's not a marketplace would be to tell me "just be yourself and replies will pour in", that is NOT the case here. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics.
in the future, when someone is shy or a loser, it's a better idea that you tell these "shy loser guys" just to give up and stare at the wall.. Also, in reference to someone's earlier post about guys suggesting that he bulk up and take a pic with his shirt off... It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics.
Please don't - I doesn't send a very good message IMO. The first thing I thought when I read this was, I love myself so much that I am well acquainted with Rosy Palms. I've seen lots of guys stressing over not getting dates on POF, and when I look at their profile pic, I can see why. The exact profile pic I put up there, personally I consider to be one of my better ones.
If you make a snap or reactionary decision, you can find yourself in a world of trouble fast. If you appear to be an ordinary joe, people can feel more comfortable in approaching you at work or a social gathering.
Sometimes, thinking things through for a few days and considering them from multiple different angles is in fact the best route. While being meek is not necessarily praised in Western society, it can be a social strength. Other people will notice that you do not say a whole heck of a lot, and very often they choose to view shy people as simply being more calm. Shy people appear to be vulnerable and easily taken advantage of by others, which can be the case in work environments that reward the most aggressive competitors.
The strengths themselves go against what is considered to be the standard convention, which is why they do not appear to be strengths. While cautious thinking can really hold you back when you need to act quickly at times, it can also be a great strength.
Following are seven of these apparent weaknesses, and how, when used right, they are actually strengths. Say you encounter a really difficult problem at work.
She's confident in who she is and knows what she wants, even if she may not always 2. She's never been the type of person who *needs* to be in a relationship, or even someone to go to dinner with. She knows what she wants in life and she's determined to make it happen.
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